Some of the things I do that help me keep my mind off of cancer:
By: Gina Lawson
(Disclaimer: these are different for everyone and sometimes you have to have energy or even be in the right frame of mind to be able to do these things. When I am in the frame of mind or mood, I will take the opportunity to comfort myself instead of the things we have to do - chores, housework, etc. because taking care of yourself is more important and those things can wait. This is how I mentally survive).
Spend time with friends and family
Quality time with my son
Self compassion
Read books
Watch movies
Go on a walk
Take myself on a solo date to the movies or a restaurant
Go to the book store
Take a bath
Go to the spa
Get a massage
Get a facial
Do a hobby
Paint
Draw
Go to the craft store
Decorate the house
Go shopping
Make an ice cream sundae
Netflix and chill
Take a nap
Travel
Book an air bnb and go by yourself if you have to
Therapy
Write
Watch ASMR
Talk on the phone
Eat something you really love
Cool a new recipe/something you enjoy
Research an interest
Take a class (non-credit or credit) at a local community college
Learn something new
Go to a museum